Tuesday, January 29, 2019

1.29.19 - Kid snippets - No brushing teeth, Clara tucking Betty and Bobby in

Last night (as usual) Jane didn't want to brush her teeth, but this time instead of just keeping her mouth shut and moving her face away from me, she took her toothbrush and ran into the kitchen to try to throw it away. (I caught her in time.)

Apparently while I was gone last week, the girls were helping Jack clean up, sort of. He discovered later that Jane threw her tupperware in the trash and her diaper in the sink.

Also last night Clara was trying to get my attention (not always easy). Finally she said "Mommy! Stand up!" So I did, and followed her to the nursery. The door was closed and lights were off. She opened the door and said "The babies are sleeping!" She had tucked their matching bears--Betty and Bobby--under her blanket on her bed. Then we turned on the light and said "Good morning!!" and she went and gave them kisses. I just like that it was important to her that I witness this. Jane was also excited.

Friday, January 25, 2019

1.25.19 - Kid Snippets - self-check out, Jane doesn't want pants

Last night Clara and I were at a grocery self-check out. Clara tried to scan her ziploc bag of Kix. When the machine said "select payment method," Clara responded, "Alexa! Play Pentatonix!"

Later that night I was (trying to) talk to Neil on the phone and Jane was crawling all over me and generally yelling to herself. I stopped and said "Jane! JANE! ...Can you please be quiet?" and she quietly responded "No!" Later I had gotten her PJ top on, and I said "Jane, let's put on your pants!" She said "Noooo," grabbed the pants, stuffed them into one of her dresser drawers, tried unsuccessfully to close it, and waddled quickly away.

Saturday, January 12, 2019

1.12.19 - Kid Snippets

Jane really likes being read to. She calls books "boop," and yesterday we sat next to the nursery bookshelf for a long time while she would pick a "boop," sit in my lap, let me read 85% of it, then get up and say "boop" and pick another one. We did this about 6-7 times. She picked "I'm a Big Sister" more than once but as soon as I get to the page about the baby sleeping she doesn't want to continue.


Today it's been raining a lot. I watched the rain out the window with Jane and Clara for a while and it made me think of "April Showers" from Bambi. So I pulled up the video of that song on Youtube, and Clara was really into it. It's maybe four minutes long and she watched it 4-5 times, each time pointing out the animals ("The mouse is under the mushroom! There's the mama bird!") and anticipating the lightning ("yigh-ing") and then announcing dramatically "It's okay!" as the animals are startled. She would wait until the part where the sun comes out and then hit 0 (start the video over).


Clara is definitely getting more vocal and articulate. I love when she asks Jack or me "What you doin'?" She usually seems to at least partially understand the responses too. Once while we were in Missouri and once at the airport waiting to fly home she had some form of conversation with other children around her age, and it really warms my heart. It's a halting and unsure conversation but at least at this age kids just kind of go with it.

This evening Clara started singing the Pentatonix version of "God Rest Ye Merry Gentleman" (her current favorite song apparently). Jane was sitting in my lap at the time and she turned and looked at me with an open-mouthed grin, then hurriedly stood up and started dancing emphatically to Clara's singing. I guess that's the hot song for toddlers right now.

A lot of times when I hug Jane she pats my shoulder.

Jane refers to Clara as "Air-rah!" She is often eager and happy to see Clara when they first wake up, although Clara usually doesn't feel the same way and wants to go back to sleep. This morning (1/12/19) is Saturday so they don't have to get up at any particular time. Jane woke up before Clara so I took Jane into the living room to let Clara sleep. Clara is occasionally coughing in the nursery and when Jane hears her she points in that direction and says "Air-rah!" as if she's making sure I know. It's very sweet how much Jane wants to do what Clara's doing and be around Clara.


Wednesday, January 9, 2019

1.9.19 - Kid snippets: angry rolling

Jane has started doing this thing where if she's mad she'll fall dramatically to the floor...and then roll angrily across the room.

Wednesday, January 2, 2019

1.2.18 - Missouri trip highlights

Other favorite parts of this trip:
  • Watching Clara sing "Jingle Bells" for Christmas karaoke at the pancake breakfast. Also seeing her interact so much with other kiddos.


  • Having dinner with the Bairds at Cappuccinos. Enjoying some great pancakes (recommended by Eddie) and generally good and funny conversation with them, as always.
  • Getting some work done at Picasso's, sitting at the table in the corner where Grandpa and I once sat together, listening to old time Big Band music and thinking of happy memories with him.
  • My 4-5 hour ongoing conversation with Aaron about religion and faith and science and atheism. It was such an amicable, genuine, respectful conversation, and it endeared me to him very much. And now we can joke about these things more easily because we've already discussed it.
  • Playing Code Names at the Jackson New Year's Party with Julie, Katie, and others. Oddly satisfying game. Also playing Gang Beatz and crying laughing as I held on to a wall and Denny tried to remove me.

  • Getting sushi with Jack, Don, Merlene, and Ricki. Ricki is very easy to talk to and full of interesting stories. Also the sushi was absolutely delicious.
  • Scanning thousands of old photos and starting to organize some of them, plus having some help from Julie, Mom, and Linda to date some of the pictures and just generally put a family tree together.



Sunday, December 30, 2018

Happy stories from 2018

Good things to focus on leading up to a new year... (Images from here.)











Tuesday, December 25, 2018

12.25.18 - Christmas

I didn't have time to write up a Christmas post soon enough this year, so this won't be as detailed. However my favorite parts of Christmas this year included the leisurely muffin and bacon breakfast with Don, Merlene, and the girls (who both really liked the muffins),


the potato hash and cinnamon rolls at Mom's (courtesy mostly of Denny), playing a little bit of 5 Crowns with the siblings and Mom, and all the Jackson Christmas traditions that night. Specifically it was fun/funny watching Merlene read the Christmas Story to a chaotic group of grandkids who kept getting up and down and going all around as she read.


It was enjoyable reading everyone's letters to us, including Don and Merlene's prayer that 2019 would be less stressful for me (haha) and Aaron and Katie's prayer that I'd get less interruptions at Starbucks (hahaha), and it was fun watching the kids decorate their own Christmas ornaments. Clara was surprisingly focused on coloring every bit of her elf red.


Later when the kids finally (sort of) went to bed, I played a weird wrestling PS4 game with Aaron and Katie and it's hard to explain but we were crying laughing. The characters are difficult to control and everything seems incompetent and trying to wrestle each other in those circumstances is hilarious. At one point Aaron even just laid down on the floor and surrendered to pure laughter. It was great.

Saturday, December 8, 2018

12.8.18 - 5th Annual Hot Chocolate Potluck!

Today was the 5th annual hot chocolate potluck, and it makes me really happy that it's become such a tradition.

Erin's picture of her mug.

Jack and I spent the morning cleaning the apartment. It actually took a lot longer than I thought, but that's because we were being particularly thorough. For example he cleaned up the nursery and our room really well even though it was unlikely anyone would go in there, and I cleaned out the fridge and wiped down the oven and other things we normally don't get to. I don't think we really needed to go to that level just for our guests but I'm glad we did because if we don't clean that much when we're having a bunch of guests, when would we? Even now after it's all over the apartment is much cleaner than typical, which is great.

Sadly, Sarah had to cancel last minute because she's sick, so I took Jane and went to Safeway to pick up candy canes (one of the items Sarah was going to bring) plus chocolate chips for my gluten free brownies. It was fun running the quick errand with Jane, who was very happy to be in the shopping cart watching the aisles of products go by. She was giggling a lot. I let her hold the box of candy canes while we were checking out and she was very interested at first. But after I scanned the box and gave it back to her she threw it over her shoulder into the shopping cart basket, haha.

About 30 minutes before guests were supposed to arrive I put both Clara and Jane down for naps in the hopes they would sleep the full amount. Clara hardly ever takes naps now but I thought it would be best to try because she is getting over a cold and I knew the day would be very stimulating. She protested at first but I told her "You take a nap, and then you'll see Henry!" and she seemed happy about that and got into bed pretty willingly.

I told Henry about that when he arrived not long after and he thought it was pretty cool. He arrived early because traffic was lighter than he thought but it was nice to visit with him extra. He brought chips, chocolate and caramel syrup, grapes, and fruit juice. He also brought us an Amazon Echo Dot (an "Alexa") his work had given him, and he and Jack spent some time setting it up. Almost immediately Clara announced "Alexa! Play 'Ice Cream Truck!'" and the Dot started playing this soothing children's instrumental sounding song. Clara know's how to do it because Beth has an Echo Dot too.

Erin and Braden arrived with many fancy cheeses, salami, crakcers, hot cocoa mix and whipped cream. Rachel came with more whipped cream, different kinds of sprinkles, chips and all kinds of dips (pico de gallo, guac, etc), and two miniature gluten free cakes! (One carrot cake, one "midnight" chocolate ganache.)




At some point around here both girls were awake. I brought Clara out and left Jane in the hope she'd sleep longer since it had been only 40 minutes or so. Clara acted shy and laid in the hallway under her Marauder's Map blanket, slowly crawling/scooting closer to the living room to see what was going on. Jane was distraught and would not go back to sleep, so I went and got her and she cuddled me while watching everyone. We just sat on the couch and observed people visiting and prepping food, and I can't say I minded all the baby cuddles, although I wondered if she was going to be that way all afternoon/evening. Clara warmed up pretty quickly and started playing with Henry.

Singing "Jingle Bells" to Henry.

Around then Renata and Kaisen arrived with not only gluten free pizza and a rotisserie chicken but also (1) the best ugly Christmas sweaters (Renata's lights up when she moves) and (2) a Minnie toy set for Clara and Jane that has a bunch of snap on dresses, bows, purses, and shoes as well as (Clara's favorite part) two little kittens and a dog for Minnie.


Jane still wanted to only cuddle me but Clara was very excited and she and Henry and later Kaisen explored the set together. Erin very kindly made me a mug of cocoa complete with whipped cream and chocolate sprinkles and I sat in the corner by the Christmas tree holding Jane and chatting with Henry and then Renata. Eventually Jane was prepared to be passed off to Jack and I got a bit more mobile, and ultimately of course Jane warmed up entirely and was wandering around everyone checking out the action.

Renata and I had a pretty good one-on-one visit and talked about work, NCLEX, her dog sitter, how the siblings are doing, all sorts of things. It's a good crew because everyone already knows one or more other guests so it isn't a tricky hosting situation to keep people included.


After we had all ate and visited for awhile we decided to start games. In years past we've either visited the entire time or maybe played Paper Game or had a few people play Tichu while others visit. This year we decided to try Quiplash. Jack had set up a Steam account on our desktop in advance and Neil let us use his credentials.

The game was a huge hit. I'm a big fan because it's easy to move around and keep playing despite interruptions, since everything is done from your phone. We had a good crew for similar senses of humor--in fact in several cases the answers were nearly identical (essential oils, fake pockets, others I can't remember now). Kaisen and Braden in particular seemed to laugh a lot but I know Erin also loved it because she encouraged us to play several more rounds. It was great. And to make it even better, Clara pulled up her own chair amongst the adults and sat watching and laughing a lot. Even Jane would start laughing (a bit fake sounding but very hard) when all the adults laughed.


It was so adorable because neither of them have any idea what we're talking about but they think it's really funny that we think something is so funny. Clara also loves the game's background music and sound effects and she kept tugging on Rachel's shirt to point both out to her.


Eventually Renata and Kaisen had to get back to their dog sitter, but the rest of us played a few more rounds of Quiplash before switching to Bomb Squad (or whatever the game is called) - it's a game where four people have to work cooperatively to defuse bombs. It's highly strategic. Henry and I sat out and kept an eye on the kids and watched the game, and Jack, Braden, Erin, and Rachel all played. They were pretty into it. I love using Steam games for parties. Really fun, no clean up, kids can't really interrupt.


Dance party to the sound track of Bomb Squad Academy.

Not long after that everyone except Henry headed out. He stayed and helped clean up and play with the kids a bit more, and I showed him the birthday gift I've already made for Dad, which he thought was really good. We visited a while longer until it was time to put the kids to bed, then he headed out too.

Jack and I got the kids to bed around the usual time, 8pm - 8:15pm or so. What was unusual was how tired we both were. I went to sleep as soon as they were down--I didn't even get under the covers until I woke up again later. Jack also came to bed at like 9pm, which is early for him. That's why I was awake today (Sunday) at 6:15am--it had already been like 10 hours of sleep, which felt great. Now I have some quiet time in the morning before anyone else wakes up to record the day. :)

Saturday, December 1, 2018

12/1/18 - Surprises coming up!

Last night I stayed up past midnight finishing (at least the first version) of my "Life is a Rock" music video for Dad's birthday next year. It's a montage of home videos of our family dancing, and I love the final product so much that I actually couldn't sleep. I woke up over and over with the song in my head wishing Jack was already awake so I could show it to him. But if you're going to wake up a lot, I guess happy excitement is a good reason to do it.

On top of that, Jack and I are trying to get pregnant and while I haven't taken a test yet, I am more sure each day that I probably am, and that delights me. I remember feeling some trepidation with Clara's pregnancy and some with Jane's too (former being more fear of the unknown and the latter being dread of the known, haha) and I'm sure I'll go through phases of that here, but for now I am just so excited. I love babies, and I love being a mom. I also love that when I first told Jack I hadn't started my period yet, his response was "eeeeeeeeeeeee." Lol. Usually only Mom gives that excited squeal type response. I love that Jack is also really excited.

In smaller but still happy news, it is now December, and Starbucks is decked in holiday stuff and random strangers are wearing goofy Christmas sweaters. It's been raining a lot the last day or two and I LOVE it. Wouldn't mind if it was a lot more often. And it's only a week until our hot chocolate potluck and only about a week and a half until we go to Missouri, a trip for which we already have a lot of fun plans.

Good day.