Friday, June 29, 2012

7.29.12 - Smashed laptop and good friends and boyfriend

Last night I made an epic workout playlist on iTunes (it included "Scream" by Michael Jackson).  I had just perfected it so that it would be exactly one hour.  I turned to go change into my Pinterest-inspired workout tshirt, and in the process I tangled my foot in my laptop cord, causing the open laptop to fall from the fireplace mantle and smash onto the floor.  The screen is completely destroyed.  At first I just turned back around and rested my forehead on the fireplace mantle and wished to go back in time about 2 seconds, but I knew in my heart that time travel is impossible (that's right, Jack).

Then I thought about all of the upcoming expenses Jack and I have with our move to Sacramento, and how much this will add to it, and I started to get upset.  I texted Julie, Ellen, and Everett about it, basically to vent.  Jack immediately took the laptop carcass and some necessary tools to Neil to see if Neil could recover any data I haven't backed up yet.  While Neil worked Jack began searching online for pricing on new laptops similar or better to the one I had just killed.  It was sweet how the moment I got upset, Jack went into proactive overdrive to resolve the problem.

Neil took out the hard drive and announced that it would be easy enough to hook up to his computer to get the data.  That was a relief.  Ellen texted me back with sympathy and some information about her very similar laptop for comparison pricing.  Julie and I had this amusing conversation via text:

Julie: Someday it will be a memory.  Like the time my screen got crushed on the plane.
Me: Yeah, actually that's the first thing I thought of.
Julie: A small part of me died that day.
Me: Lol. But just a memory.
Julie: No, you don't understand, it was a horcrux.

Everett didn't give me helpful information or sympathy.  He just texted me "It's bad ya know."  This is a lyric from RL Burnside's "It's Bad Ya Know".  My relationship with Everett basically consists of texting each other parts of that song.  I believe I've mentiond this before...



I seriously lol'd when he used that song so fittingly for this situation.  Given I was on the verge of tears, laughing was a huge relief, and immediately I remembered that a smashed laptop is a first world problem and that it's not really that bad.  Good job, jerkface.

And of course ultimately I called Mike.  With his suggestions and Neil's help we hooked up the laptop to an external monitor and discovered that it's only the screen that's destroyed--the rest of it still works fine.  This may mean that I need only replace the screen instead of the entire laptop, which will be a couple hundred dollars cheaper.  So that helped lighten the mood a couple hundred dollars.

Shortly thereafter, Jack and I got a little dressed up and used a Living Social coupon for a really lovely sushi dinner at Tokyo Go Go in the mission.  We ordered miso soup instead of edamame and we didn't get any rolls with tempura, just to try to keep the calorie count somewhat reasonable.  It was delicious.  So was my Syrah.  I loved the tall table for two at which we sat.  I loved the multi-sized soft-glowing orb lamps all over the ceiling.  I loved that we were directly beneath the lone TV so that we couldn't see it, and that it had no sound anyway, and that it was playing, bizarrely, Independence Day.  I also noticed the restaurant music was loud enough to hear but not so loud you had to raise you voice to talk.  The staff were very friendly and the atmosphere was just great.  I'm so glad Jack and I always have a weekly date night, and I strongly recommend it to other couples.

Anyway, by the end of the night I felt perfectly fine.  I have good friends.

Sunday, June 17, 2012

6.17.12 - My birthday

My favorite messages from my birthday this year were:
  • FB post from Julie: "so how does it feel to be 27 and the lightest you've ever been in your adult life, hmmmm?"
  • A 30 min call with Renata. Haven't gotten to talk to her in so long. So nice to hear from her.
  • FB post from Scott: "Happy fathers day!!!"
  • A brief call from Hugo! Never actually heard his voice before, so delighted to hear from him! Bonus: he called me just as he was about to workout and right when I happened to be working out. We are interstate workout buddies. :)
  • FB post from Cody: "Hey, It's that one day. Dont die for another year."
  • And my favorite, a text from Eddie: "Ooooh, my name is Monica, and today's my birthday! I'm so special because EVERYONE is gonna talk to me today! Happy birthday. don't think you're special because you're 27...I've been 27 for months now."

Thursday, June 14, 2012

6.14.12 - Summer weight loss update

A few thoughts:
  • I have decided I love oatmeal with banana.
  • Also edamame.
  • I seem unable to eat the right foods/portions based solely on a desire to be healthy/lose weight.
  • Yet I am more than capable of doing the above out of sheer pride.
The regime is going well. I weigh less now than I ever have in my adult life, by a few pounds, and I'm excited about that.  I'm quite sure if I wasn't in a summer-long bet with Julie I would contentedly stop now and just try to maintain the level I'm at, but a competition is a competition, so the careful self-control continues.

Despite eating only 1500 cals/day for about a month and a half now, I'm still not entirely used to it.  I've gotten better at it, but I think hardly a night has gone by that I haven't fantasized about just letting it go and eating a giant bowl of fettuccini.  (My food fantasies tend to be about huge amounts of carbs.)  I don't do it, of course, but I can see how easy it is to fall off the wagon, even after having been on it for awhile.

Working out has been a bit easier.  I enjoy the sweat and the pride afterward.  And the music, and the adrenaline!  If I don't really want to work out I still do cardio for 45m-1h, but I don't push as hard.  I have only missed one daily workout since April 30, but we'll see if that can last the rest of the summer.

Lastly, I find lately that the most inspiring factor is when other people are inspired to work out/eat healthily and tell me about it, especially if I helped motivate them in some way.  Then I feel like we're in this together, and I have to workout so that they also know we're in this together.  I think it's awesome that I live in an age where people in totally different states can basically be my workout buddies.